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‘My Daughter Is Not Worth More Than Any Other Child’ – HotAir

I’ve avoided the Nikole Hannah-Jones pile-on, in which conservatives (and other sane people) have trashed the former New York Times columnist and liberal icon for condemning her daughter to a poor education in order to score political points. 





I didn’t do so because I didn’t have thoughts. I did. Plenty of them. I just wasn’t certain I had anything to contribute to the pile-on beyond “What a bad mother, that lefty.” I was pretty certain that my colleagues would step up to the plate, and they did, beautifully. 

Ten years ago, New York Times writer Nikole Hannah-Jones wrote a viral essay explaining why she sent her daughter to a failing public school on principle. 

By Hannah-Jones’ own account, her daughter’s presence didn’t lift up the Brooklyn school; the school dragged her down and barely seemed to notice she was there. 

@coldxman wrote about what this whole episode can teach us about progressives and how we can give kids the education they deserve.

Still, the commentary Jones made about her daughter’s justified anger at being dumped into a bad school to satisfy Hannah-Jones’ ideological virtue signaling has stayed with me. 





The basic theme of Hannah-Jones’ column is that she sent her kid to a bad inner-city school because she believed that her kid was no more important than any other, and the only way to change schools for the better is to ensure they aren’t only filled with kids from bad backgrounds. Her kid being there might change the culture for the better. That’s the abbreviated version. 

Nikole Hannah-Jones, obviously, misdiagnoses the reasons why our education system sucks, as well as the best methods to improve it, but that is a well-understood phenomenon with liberals. They always do. It’s in their DNA. The New York Public Schools mostly suck for a lot of reasons, but at least some of them have to do with the fact that the schools suck

Toward the end of first grade, Najya started sometimes saying she didn’t like her school and complaining how chaotic it was at lunch. I decided to visit during the lunch period and was shocked by what I saw. Najya’s class and another class were sitting at their tables in the cafeteria with no lunch and no adult supervision. Children were running wild, chasing, hitting and pushing each other while the teacher’s aides and cafeteria workers stood by looking bored.

Several times, I had to instruct children to stop striking each other and to sit down, at one point physically pulling two boys apart. When I asked one of the aides why the children weren’t being supervised, she told me the lunch period was short-staffed. After I sat back down with Najya, she told me, “It’s always like this, and that’s why I don’t want to go to this school.”





The bottom line was simple: her daughter eventually rebelled after getting a horrible education despite good grades — nobody graded the actual work — and demanded to go to a better high school. Jones finally acceded and wrote about it. 

I wondered what new I could say that others haven’t. And it occurred to me that Hannah-Jones’ reasoning mirrored a larger one often found on the left: the failure to understand the difference between the general and the specific. 

As Coleman Hughes points out, one of the biggest problems is that liberals focus all their efforts on the “victims” or troublemakers, rather than ensuring that the majority are able to thrive. That is obviously true; whenever a fight breaks out over one issue or another, it always centers on a tiny minority, not what is good for the vast majority of people. 

Take that lesbian bar fiasco, where an entire controversy and eventual collapse of an institution centered around N95 masking in 2026. Allowing a single night a week for unmasked partying was a “genocide” because some person somewhere sometime might catch a disease. 

FFS. If you are that delicate, just don’t go to the bar that night. Instead, everything collapses to accommodate the person who is paranoid or has a genuine problem, destroying everything for everybody else. It’s a common theme. 





But there is another liberal-coded failure of thinking here, embedded in Hannah-Jones’ frequent repetition of the idea that her daughter is not more valuable than anybody else. Now, in some grand scheme of things, one could argue about the proposition, but for a mother? There is something inherently sick about that idea. 

Morally and evolutionarily, the family developed precisely because this should not be true for parents. People are individuals, and love of one’s own also happens, writ large, to be a pro-social attitude. We know that intuitively because we experience love, rather than fellow-feeling, for some people and would sacrifice for them over others. And we know that societally because of the well-known phenomenon called the “tragedy of the commons,” where people take care of things they own better than things owned in common. 

We don’t just expect parents to advocate for their own children; we consider it unnatural and immoral because kids need advocates and protectors, and turning somebody into an avatar for society as a whole is perverse. It is not just perverse because it is unnatural; it is unnatural because societies that treat children as common property create a tragedy of the commons, where no child is special to anybody, and hence gets neglected. 

This is one of the reasons why welfare systems are excessively bureaucratic and fail to achieve the goals they were created to fulfill. Everybody is a number, and nobody especially cares about numbers or will sacrifice for them. 





People aren’t cogs in machines, and treating your own child as a cog means that the only person you love is yourself. You are special; not even your child is. 

If you look around at places in America where people with these attitudes run things, they tend to be one large tragedy of the commons. Portland, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Chicago. The people who run these places are doing great; everybody else? Not so much. 

Here, have a drug needle and some Narcan. 

Hannah-Jones may have finally pulled her kid out of the nasty situation she put her in, but she obviously hasn’t learned her lesson because the underlying ideology is still there. She did it because her kid complained enough to make life difficult. 

That’s not just a Hannah-Jones problem. That’s indicative of a mindset that doesn’t understand that real love is a much more positive social force than abstract caring about “principles” and a belief in systems. 

Parents should do anything they can for their kids because it is morally right, and it reflects a biological system that selected for this behavior for a reason. 

Caring for the good of others and for society as a whole is great to layer on top of those impulses, but unless you realize that charity begins at home, you just make things worse. 


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